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The Art of Asking
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This is something I find takes a lot of homework and preparation. I am currently doing some research on how to invite regular people in community to get to know someone they already know a little…Continue

Started this discussion. Last reply by joe erpenbeck Apr 7, 2010.

 

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renee stanley replied to Becki Pauls's discussion Citizens at the Center in the group Community Connections
"Helping the community to see what is similar and humanly familiar rather than the differences and barriers. It's a good start!"
Oct 19, 2010
renee stanley commented on Becki Pauls's page Poems and Quotes
"http://www.institutionwatch.ca/ -Reference for previous quote"
Aug 31, 2010
renee stanley commented on Becki Pauls's page Poems and Quotes
"An institution is not just a place.... It's the way people think"
Aug 31, 2010
renee stanley commented on Becki Pauls's page Poems and Quotes
""Whenever you are in doubt, apply the following test. Recall the face of the poorest and the weakest person whom you may have seen, and ask yourself, if the step you contemplate is going to be of any use to them? "- Gandhi"
Aug 31, 2010
renee stanley commented on renee stanley's blog post How to respond respectfully?
"Hi Tim, I would be lying if I said I always knew this stuff. Because I didn't. I guess I am lucky in the sense that I have only been working in the disability sector for 12 months. Before that I was a student at UNI studying Social work and…"
Aug 10, 2010
tim vogt commented on renee stanley's blog post How to respond respectfully?
"Dear Diary, I was reading this post on the Inclusion Ning message Board and it reminded me of myself… Seriously, though, this is a great conversation. Thanks for posting the question, Renee, and good for you for considering it. I think…"
Aug 10, 2010
renee stanley replied to tim vogt's discussion Rusty citizens and what constitutes my "neighborhood?"
"Haha!! Yep, That's cheap Beer! What a wonderful and powerful story! I got excited reading it. I totally agree, it is not 'work' it is just a matter of being. Without a "hat" as such on your head, you are able to look much…"
Jul 22, 2010
renee stanley replied to Becki Pauls's discussion Questions and Comments
"Totally agreed!"
Jul 22, 2010
renee stanley replied to Becki Pauls's discussion Questions and Comments
"My experience here on the Inclusion network site is simply inspiring! I love knowing that I have a place to come to, to share in my frustrations, thoughts, and most importantly, knowing that I can ask for advice without feeling silly or…"
Jul 22, 2010
Margy Meath commented on renee stanley's blog post How to respond respectfully?
"This is a great dialogue and Renee's question is one that I think about quite a bit. I no longer work in the 'service' side of the world but interact with service providers on a very regular basis. It's difficult, at times, to…"
Jul 20, 2010
renee stanley commented on renee stanley's blog post How to respond respectfully?
"Thank you Peter, I really appreciate your advice. Yes, I do believe if I can have a conversation about the mission statements some of these people are working under in casual, relaxed and non- threatening type way, it would be very useful and bring…"
Jul 20, 2010
Peter Leidy commented on renee stanley's blog post How to respond respectfully?
"Hi Renee, A couple thoughts... What you are describing, in my experience, is common. I think Alan's suggestions are right on. Just yesterday I had a conversation with a very loving young woman who is a friend of my daughter. She is in college…"
Jul 19, 2010
renee stanley commented on renee stanley's blog post How to respond respectfully?
"Thank you Alan, Yes, You are right. That is some useful advice. Simple and true. I will do that.. I never get angry or frustrated at the other person but I feel like I can never acurately communicate my point across in a way which is easy for them…"
Jul 19, 2010
Alan Sloan commented on renee stanley's blog post How to respond respectfully?
"Hi Renee, I understand your reaction to other people's well-intentioned attempts at inclusion that actually result in further exclusion. However, if you can genuinely affirm their good intentions and then ask if you might make a suggestion to…"
Jul 19, 2010
John O'Brien and renee stanley are now friends
Jul 18, 2010
renee stanley posted a blog post

How to respond respectfully?

Hi everyone,I have come to seek advice around something that I am finding a struggle with. It is something that my work partners and I are trying to sharpen up on. However, we are finding it difficult to find the right words to try to both not offend but also be clear on our values, aspirations and visions we have for the people we are involved with.We come into contact on a daily basis of Service staff, coordinators, support workers, sso workers etc.. Most of them being good hearted, well…See More
Jul 15, 2010

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Please share something about yourself, your work, and what draws you to the Inclusion Network online community.
IMy name is Renee, my work role is a circle facilitator for people who live with disability. I have embraced SRV as a sole prinicipal for which I base my work around as do the other facilitators with whom strive to build and strengthen relationships for people who have a disability. We believe that freely given relationships are the key to community inclusion.
What would you like to contribute to this community? What would you like to receive?
I would like to contribute my learnings of SRV and my experiences with working alonside people who have a disability and what a 'good life' can look like for people who have been shut out and 'done to'.
I would like to recieve knowledge and inspiration from people who strive to make inclusion and a 'good life' a goal for people who are not generaly 'valued' in our society.
How did you hear about this community?
From researching o'brien and o'brien
What are some of the questions you'd like to explore, or conversations you'd like to have with others in this community?
How do we strive to help build and strengthen relationships for people who have disabilities with people who don't?
How do we successfully act as role models to community who don't understand the importance of freely given relationships?

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How to respond respectfully?

Posted on July 15, 2010 at 4:51am 7 Comments

Hi everyone,

I have come to seek advice around something that I am finding a struggle with. It is something that my work partners and I are trying to sharpen up on. However, we are finding it difficult to find the right words to try to both not offend but also be clear on our values, aspirations and visions we have for the people we are involved with.

We come into contact on a daily basis of Service staff, coordinators, support workers, sso workers etc.. Most of…

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Thanks Connie and John O'Brien

Posted on May 2, 2010 at 8:50pm 2 Comments

I was privelleged enough to hear Connie and John O'Brien talk about their experiences and suggestions on inclusion. I am thinking about ways to adapt what I do and also, how to talk with others in a way which helps them understand... Wow, so much to do, so much to do

SRV

Posted on February 8, 2010 at 9:30pm 13 Comments

Hi everyone,

I am new to the inclusion network and have been asked to post something about SRV ( Social Role Valorisation).

I recently undertook an intensive (and very emotional) 7 day course called PASSING. It looks deeper into the concept of SRV put forth by a man named wolf wolfensberger.

SRV looks at people who are devauled or at risk of being devauled, ie, people with disabilities, mental illness, the elderly and also, those in Prison.

It focuses on…

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At 4:43pm on October 5, 2010, rose jones said…
Greetings dear,
My name is Rose,
and i just read your profile,
so i decide to express my feeling
that you might be of good person to me,
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At 11:02pm on April 23, 2010, Connie Lyle O'Brien said…
Looking forward to meeting you in Adelaide.
At 9:10pm on February 8, 2010, Becki Pauls said…
Hello Renee! Welcome to the online Inclusion Network. Thanks for sharing about the things that you are thinking about in your profile responses. I am very interested in learning more about Social Role Valeurization. It would be great if you could share some of your thoughts in a blog post, or add a discussion in the forum. Thanks for being here. Looking forward to hearing more! Becki
 
 
 

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